The next step was for me to get some bloodwork done. During a first trimester miscarriage, it is very well because the chromosomes of the fetus do not equal the required 46XX or 46XY chromosomes. When there are frequent, first trimester miscarriages and the chromosomal abnormality is present, it could be because one of the parents' chromosomes is not offering the correct number or arrangement for a fetus to grow. Small excerpt taken from MarchofDimes.com:
Chromosomal abnormalities usually result from an error that occurred when an egg or sperm cell was developing. It is not known why these errors occur. As far as we know, nothing that a parent does or doesn't do before or during pregnancy can cause a chromosomal abnormality in his or her child.
Sperm and egg cells are different from other cells in the body. These cells have only 23 unpaired chromosomes. When an egg and sperm cell join together they form a fertilized egg with 46 chromosomes.
But sometimes something goes wrong before fertilization. An egg or sperm cell may divide incorrectly, resulting in an egg or sperm cell with too many or too few chromosomes.
When this cell with the wrong number of chromosomes joins with a normal egg or sperm cell, the resulting embryo has a chromosomal abnormality. A common type of chromosomal abnormality is called a trisomy. This means that an individual has three copies, instead of two, of a specific chromosome.
I still have not heard back from those results yet, but they may take up to 2 weeks. If I am not the carrier here, then Travis will have to be tested. However, it is highly likely that I'm the carrier. Travis thinks he is "at fault," but I've been born with multiple birth defects. It's more than likely me.
Travis and I are just taking it day by day. We've definitely stopped trying to conceive until we know what's going on. Until then, I'll keep posted on this journey.